CJ Miles takes issue with the Tiger Mom approach, arguing that it is overly harsh and neglects the emotional needs of children. In her article, "Naggy for Your Own Good: Why Tiger Moms Are the Worst," Miles writes that Tiger Moms are "nagging, critical, and relentless" in their pursuit of perfection, and that this can have a damaging impact on children's self-esteem and mental health.

Miles argues that children need praise and positive reinforcement to develop a healthy sense of self-worth, and that the Tiger Mom approach can be damaging because it withholds this praise. She also suggests that the emphasis on hard work and discipline can lead to burnout and a lack of creativity and innovation.

The Tiger Mom philosophy is rooted in traditional Chinese culture, which places a strong emphasis on education and academic achievement. Chinese parents often believe that their children owe them a debt of gratitude for the sacrifices they have made to provide for them, and that it is their duty to repay this debt through hard work and obedience.